One big lesson I’ve learned in my life, is to never give up your love or dream in life of what you may want or already have for someone else. No matter how much you love them. Because that will end and you will have to go back and recapture what you gave up for them. And if they really loved you, they never would have let you give up that part of your spirit for them. They would have become an ally in helping you achieving it and maintaining it and supporting it, and helping your spirit grow!